No one directly changes anyone, and it is also useless to try to change someone, as you can spend your entire life trying to convert a person to the lifestyle you consider best through insistence, recurring requests for change and daily criticism, and even then you will see that unfortunately it will be without any success.
And to be very clear, all you can do is make the story boring.
According to Gandhi's thinking: "You can't change people, you have to be the change you want to see in others", this proves that people need to see the behavior in us for them to want to be the same, and see that they wanted have this behavior because they were wrong.
Watching a video, the speaker said that it was impossible to change people, and that it was in a store and there was a sign on it that said: We hired good people, that is, the store did not want to teach how to change a professional. bruises, they wanted someone who was good to work with.
People change ?
I believe it depends on the opinion and will of each person, but often what actually happens is that we socially shape ourselves in a better way to live with each other, because in reality we need to adapt to the environment.
Sometimes all we really need is to change, our way of speaking, acting, being... even because change is always good and will certainly lead us to experience new results.
Even if some people say that you have changed, this cannot become something negative, because change is necessary, it is something natural and essential for the survival of each person.
Give up wanting to change people
In addition to not working, you will only get more and more irritated if you insist on changing someone, as it is a waste of time and energy.