It's nearly impossible to understand

At the present time, trying to understand a human is very complex, because their thinking is quite complex compared to the past time. Maybe in the past people were too simple to understand. Otherwise, they were not so smart enough to hide their true thoughts. Whatever the reason I think in the past it was good, at least because of that reason we could trust people without thinking too much. But we are now living in the present time and now people are quite complex and trying to understand their thoughts is nearly impossible.

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We cannot trust anyone blindly at the present time. In fact, trusting a single person is very difficult. People are trying to deceive others and pretend to be good people in front of others. Sometimes even after spending several years together, we may not truly understand the true intention of another person because they are too good to hide their true intention for their selfish motive. That is the reason when it comes to helping others. We really hesitate a lot. We need to think twice that if the person deserves help or needs help genuinely or whether the person is trying to take advantage of our kindness. Is there any way to verify it?

To be honest, there is no 100% solid plan to verify if a person truly deserves the help or not, but we can ask for related information or proof when someone asks for help. If their proof and words are convincing enough, we can consider helping them. Still, there will be some people who can convince us to help them, and we will be betrayed by them for showing our kindness, but I think that we should not stop helping others just because of it. If we stop helping others, it will be the end of humanity. Because if we do so in the future, the people who truly need help badly will end up not receiving help and they will suffer greatly for it. Aside from related information, there is actually nothing more we can ask for verification.

As far as I can remember, I was betrayed by one of my close friends. It was the time when I went to my village to stay for some days during my vacation time. And all of a sudden one of my village friends asked for financial help. He was pretty close to me when I was in the village and in case of trust, I did trust him. At least I didn't have any reason to doubt him or his intention. I borrowed some money from him, because it was his family emergency and as a friend, I think it was my responsibility also to help as far as I could. In that time, I was not earning any money, and every single cent was very important to me. He promised to return the money to me within two weeks. Even if he returned it after one month, I wouldn't mind it because I didn't need it at that time.

Two months later, when I needed the money, I asked about it, and he actually taken time and delayed it somehow. Again, and again and made it one more month. He gave me several excuses and several times she showed many issues. After a certain time, I started to feel like a beggar who was asking for money from him. It was kind of humiliating to me. So, I stopped asking for the money for him and later I acknowledged that the money he had been taken from me was used for buying gifts for his girlfriend. I never expect him to live for such a lame kind of thing. My communication with that friend has been reduced a lot, but still, I'm in touch with him. And someday I think I will get my chance to take revenge with interest. I just feel he is not worth making manual efforts. That's all about my story and after that I actually have very few people to trust when it comes to financial help. The incident was a lesson for me.