Ever heard people saying "you cannot advice people who are in love?" Ewwwww! That's because their heart wants what it wants!
Love is actually a beautiful thing but it's usually tricky being able to distinguish love from infatuation.
When you know it hurts but you still want them, then it's not even love at all. Love is kind, patient, and doesn't look for its own interest.
Sometimes true love means letting go of that person because it's not right for either you or them.
This is why it is important to get to know a person to some extent before falling in love with them. When emotions cloud one's judgment , they fail to see the person for who they truly are.
Selena Gomez - The Heart Wants What It Want
The heart wants what it wants even when it's not right, so use your head always.
Choose someone who is kind to you even when you both have a fall out. One who love you unconditionally, not because they just emotionally attached to you. One who respect your value, your body, your boundaries and respect your choice.
Even though the heart wants what it want, learn to condition your heart never to settle for less.
You deserve a blissful kind of love. True love aren't only seen in movies, they actually exist in the real world, but your choice determines the kind of love you'll get.
While you're hoping to experience the safe kind of love, do yourself good to also be a safe kind of love to your partner. Love is about reciprocity. It's a give and take affair. If you're settling for a love that's one sided, then you're only going to hurt yourself at the end of the day.
Choose a love that's able to accommodate you, make you seen, make you peaceful and safe. Even if the heart wants what it wants, make sure it's deserving!
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Amie,
ᵀʰᵉ ᵍⁱʳˡ ʷⁱᵗʰ ᵃ ᵇⁱᵍ ʰᵉᵃʳᵗ ❤
