You’re forever going to be finding yourself. It’s not like one day you’re going to wake up and be like, “Holy shit, no fucking way. There I am! Where have I been all my life?!”
Life is a journey, not a destination, kids. Saying you're "finding yourself" implies that you, in turn, are currently lost. Self-discovery is a series of irregularly-scheduled revolutions and epiphanies throughout life as a means of internal evolution. It is not an excuse to be somehow less responsible for your choices or less capable in general.
You’ll never be “found”... because we’re not done becoming until we’re dead.
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