So why complain? Why feel a grudge on a feeling that you believe it should have happened any other way? What good is this thought? What good is the feeling of injustice if it won't change what happened? Why fight for a destiny that will never exist? Why imagine ''WHAT IF'' when it's just an illusion?
Everything that happened should have happened the way it happened... Accept, thank and keep going, just keep going...
We will never be able to change the past. Of course, but every time we lash out at the universe because things didn't turn out the way we imagined, we forget about it. We forget that by getting angry over something that went wrong, we are fighting the past, and that act is simply useless.
And I'll say another thing: just because something happened the way we didn't want it, just because we suffered, doesn't mean it was wrong... sometimes it means just the opposite, sometimes it means that this was the change you needed for to create something better, to develop a better version of yourself, to transcend... Trust in the flow, trust in life, and don't resist growth.
The best to come.