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The public often have their informal way of playing judge in people's life. I believe that is happening all over the world and is very common now that we have social media. Most people are living online now, you hardly see them do things in the public except online and people like that try to play judge concerning everything happening online.


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For week 236 and episode 2 we are talking about Cancel Culture. Alot enjoy doing this no matter what. So e of them even enjoy playing the role of parents because they want to make sure people follow what they say and what have you.

THE ONLINE FATHERS AND MOTHERS

If you go online today you discover that there are a lot of things happening to people because some are always trying to advise, trying to force their own ideas and opinion into people's life and they're actually playing the jury.

They are becoming judges over things that they know nothing about, because sometimes when you see a family coming out online to say that this is happening in their family you don't really know whether it's true or not you just go all over and start judging the wife or judging the husband or deciding what should have happened or what you have not happened. This is what people do today online and sometimes it get me mad when I see a lot of people not actually facing on minding their business but all they do is look at the online people and they start judging what is happening, start deciding on what happening in the lives of others that you don't know. a lot of people have been misunderstood when there is cancel culture,

you see this is what people do online today and which is not good I had my experience sometimes back. somebody very close to me was involved in a scandal and it has not been proving that he is guilty or not. People just started going online to talk about his family and what they do, what they don't do. How that fellow has been a criminal and today God have set a trap for him. People were just playing the judge over his case which they know nothing about.

Talking online and playing the judge can't change anything. that person is really close to me and I know what has been happening in that person's life but when something about the person came out online and people were saying- oh he did this, oh he did that oh he's a criminal oh he's this and that I was just laughing because they don't know him and today there is no evidence that he did what he was acused of. And people have stopped talking.

HUNGRY CONTENT CREATORS
I think this is mostly the hand work of hungry content creators who are just waiting for any little information from anyone to start talking about it.

SOLUTION
the solution to me is minding your business. you don't really know what this person is up to, somebody just came out online and say that this person did this to me and you know what to say I believe that this is going to go a long way to help us in our country today. What is happening to a lot of people you don't know but you want to judge them.

Don't go online just to talk and say a lot of things about other people's family that you know nothing about. this is saying that you can't sit one place and know what is happening all the markets in the whole world. It's just that same market where you are that you know what is happening but every other market no you don't know. so you cannot be a judge over people online.

Secondly, do more of listen than talking. Talk less when you hear something about someone. Stay out of people's affairs one day it will be your turn

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