Another special edition is here guys. Episode 2 of week 232 is a blast. I find the topic very interesting because it describes me a lot. Sometimes I actually thank God for the little stubbornness left in me because it has driving me forward up to where I am today.
JUST BEING STUBBORN
friends I believe that it is necessary for one to bring out a little stubbornness to cross some boundaries. Of you want to obey every law and order around you, you will discover oke day that you are not in existence. Do you know why? Because a lot of people don't see your vision, some just want your down fall, some think that you should not walk pass them in life and so they will put any effort needed to make you never to move forward.
TELL US ABOUT THE TIME YOUR STUBBORNNESS PAID OFF.
When it comes to this particular topic I have a lot to say because sincerely speaking I believe that stubbornness is a skill that we need to exhibit sometimes that will give us a gate pass. If you are all obedient to everyone and everything, then you will not go far in life.
MY EXPERIENCE WITH STUBBORNNESS
I grew up with the type of people who believe that a young girl who is not married should never live alone and should not also be successful in life. Everything has to be about her husband.
When I was 17 going to 18 years old, I decided that I want to stay in the city to build a future for myself and family. Everyone was unhappy about my decision and my family members refused to give me their support. Infact they all stood against me staying alone because according to them I will start selling my body for money. That was never in my mind. When this was said and they went on to seaze my only bag I cried for about a whole month and when they finally gave me the clothes I ran away from the village to the city to meet my friend to start my life again. That was the highest stubbornness that I displayed when I was growing up. I know that I did a lot of bad things but for this one, it was not good at all.
I ran out of the house the following morning and they never saw me again until after some years. But I know that deep within me that was the only solution for me and when came ran out my family looked for me until when they became tired. That was how I got to see my husband years after, I got married and today I am happy and blessed with beautiful children. I am happy I was very stubborn back then.
WHEN MY STUBBORNNESS DID NOT PAY OUT
I was told not to leave the house because there was no body at home, but the normal me will not hear that word. When I saw my friend going to the market I followed her but I actually forgot that no one to look after the house. Before I returned my mother was already back and met her house empty. That very day I received the beating of my life and I never repeated it again.
Guys that was me. Sometimes I enjoy being stubborn and sometimes I suffer the consequences of my action.
