Upbringing sometimes can cause serious havoc to the life of a child. Parents are also sometimes the key problem children are having today. Most of them have failed to protect or guide the child towards the negative parts of life. Focusing on the self is also part of the destruction that would be before the child. Most parents also have failed to focus majorly on their children; instead, they have based all the focus on themselves. This may focus majorly on themselves instead of their children, making their children grow wings and also mingle with the outside world. The outside world I am referring to here is the touts that we have out there.
Failure to make your child understand how life goes can cause serious difficulties in the life of a child. I have seen so many parents who always leave their children for work. This means they preferred their work to their children. Yeah, children are moving from one house to the other, which enhances their habits. That is, good habits will be enhanced or tempered just as a result of parents not taking care of him or her.
Why do you choose to give birth to a child when you know he will not have the mind to take care of the child or the mind to caution the child of some abnormalities?
When the parents are also financially handicapped, the parents cannot be able to cater for the child, but then such parents have the mind to caution the child. Most rich men nowadays do not go to school just because of the financial problems they face. But then this stood out just as a result of the care and also the guidance their parents have given them.
The child has a major role to play when it comes to hood behavior toward society and himself. Parents might have tried their best to bring them up and to give them a better move, but then they must stand out just to help themselves.
Helping themselves means staying out of what would make them cause any form of trouble for society at large.
Most children who are terrorizing society today are from good homes. They just chose the part of failure and the part to remain in their immediate selves. Some are influenced by the society they lived in, and some are influenced by their parents. Imagine a parent who is a smoker. What do you expect from his children?
Imagine a parent who's always beating up his wife. What must you expect from his children?
They must follow the bloodline of who their parents are.
So, the part of remaining good to society comes from both parents and the children. This means both parties have to play their part just to bring a better life to the outside world.
The child needs to blend into the parent's words and stay away from bad influences, as so many people out, there are ready to influence the child negatively.
