The more time I spend in Asia (specifically Thailand), the more I change – but it’s not until I meet with old friends that I actually notice how crazy those changes have been.
The pay for play, partying, sheer abundance of cute girls, endless nightlife options – you become like the fish in the water that doesn’t know what water is because he has never been outside.
So, in a good way that lifestyle become the new status quo.
Then I meet old friends – and don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean this in a condescending way – in my book, no one person is better than another … I look at my friends and am surprised how for some strange reason, it feels like they are 10 years behind … and I know without Asia/Thailand, I would be just like them right now.
Here’s what I mean:
#1 – It feels like time moves slower in the West – at least in terms of dating & nightlife. Takes them weeks or months to get laid with average girls whereas in Thailand, that’d be a matter of days – weeks at best.
#2 – Talking about average. Once you’ve been with Asian girls, your expectations change quite radically. It’s not uncommon to come across a 35 year old Thai girl that looks better than her 22 year old Caucasian counterpart.
#3 – The other thing I notice: Women, women, women. Almost like that’s their life purpose, but it makes sense. When something is scares you tend to value it more. Once you’ve been to Thailand and experience the abundance of available girls – attractive ones – that scarcity mindset goes out of the window. You still enjoy women but they are not your #1 focus in life anymore; you focus/work on something else.
I still hope one day, I will get every single one of my friends over here so they can see for themselves.
If you have thought about Thailand, you might ask yourself …
- How Do I Know Thailand Is Right For Me?
- How Do I Know That I Would Actually Enjoy It?
- What If I Dislike It – Waste My Time & Money?
I used to be in the same boat. I still am – in regards to many things in life – but this thinking can be a trap.
Wanting absolute certainty.
I am not sure … Will This even Work Out? Should I Even Try?
Maybe you’ve had a similar experience. I can say for myself when I think about doing something, it always plays out the same way. Should I? Should I not? I go back and forth, looks at the pros and cons. Then I decide I’m not gonna do it. Shortly after, “Ah, fuck it. I’m doing it. At least gotta give it a try. Too curious to not try.”
Look, if you don’t have the money or are 100% not interested in Thailand, this isn’t an issue for you.
But if you’re here watching my videos & have thought about going, then I’d say, “Make it quick and easy.”
Maybe one day. Waiting for the perfect situation – I can’t go because my friends don’t want to go. You are putting life on hold.
If you are anything like me, you will think about it anyway – so why not find out quickly if you like Thailand or not.
Done.
Regardless of whether you like Thailand – and Thailand could stand for anything you want to try – you are one step further by taking action. If you don’t like it – done. Now you know.