everyone has their own way of life. everyone has a way to live. what you do is your responsibility. and that is yours. don't let other people disturb your life. don't let others determine your life.
if the advice of people who want to bring you down, you should never listen. don't let you fall for it. so that what you want, becomes lost. let him say anything. and people like that are not good people. and can not be made as a friend. but listen to the person who gives good advice for you. that's the one who can be made a friend.
the person who wants to take you down, is someone who is jealous and jealous of you. there's no point in listening to him. let him say anything.