Good morning hivers. Its a new day ☺️. Wishing you all an amazing day ahead. Special thanks to @HiveGhana for this week's prompts. I couldn't help but smile when I saw the second fopic.m, so I will be starting from there.
This is an issue that I have already given answer to in my life. I have heard many counsel, talks, read books and I have come to the conclusion that love and money is both important to consider when going into marriage.
I start first by defining the key words, love and money.
**Love ** is defined as a strong, positive feeling of affection, care, and attraction towards another person.
**Money ** is what ws used to trade for the things we need or we might want.
Some people say it's okay not to love or like a person, you might end up liking the person or you will learn to love the person. It might work for others but certainly not me. My partner that I would be end up with must be someone I love and cherish.
Love is very important to me when I consider marriage. Same goes with Money, money is very important. Money is needed to provide stability and a comfortable life. Money is also needed to solve financial meeds. So I will say these two are very important to me when I consider marriage.
As a woman I love it when I'm loved and also it's good when I also love my partner. If I love you I can learn to adjust to a few things and correct your mistakes and be your strength in your weakness. To me, without love all of this cannot be done by me. I can't really learn to love a man.
And secondly, money. I know I would be misunderstood but what I'm trying to say is that i need a man that has an income that can not only take care of me, the children, the home and everything in the house but can take care if my basic needs, that of my children and the house.
I'm a woman that makes and has her own money, but it will choke , if I don't have my partner by my side to support me. And most importantly, it fosters a healthy and happy relationship. I'm not against people that start small, neither I'm i against people that have it all, don't get me wrong please. Let's give a balance to the two of them.
When there is too much of financial struggle, there's bound to be tension and stress. And I'm someone who loves to travel around, make moments, experience new things , go on vacation, so certainly money is very important when it comes to marriage.
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