I have always love "love" trust me, I like to be in the feelings that someone is looking out for me, someone is out there that acres about me always and I can also reciprocate, having someone I can call mine and also reciprocal but then as Love is so beautiful ,if not planned well, if one do not love strategically, that love might turn into hatred , curse, problem and will chance ones beliefs that love us not beautiful. I'm someone that always reason well before doing things, I don't care to hurt my heart just to give sense to myself .
What I meant is, I have had crush but I declined when they come to me, I have met with someone my heart beat for,still didn't approved when he finally approached this is because Love is beautiful but not enough, you have to be physically, emotionally and financially ready if you are going into a relationship. As a lady,I look into a man that mentally psychological and financially ready to be in a relationship before I say yes. Yes,you heard me right , financially but this is not about earning millions but be comfortable enough to be able to lend me a hand, imagine meeting a guy that in the space of 2 weeks and is already asking you lend him some money,what if we hadn't met, the people you roll with before you met me can't help? That's a very red flag to me.
If we don't want to deceive ourselves, love without money will go no where,There is no one that will call you nice without you spending a dine, in this era we are, how do you show caring to your lover without spending. We have found ourselves in this era already, nothing can be done or moved without money.
I will never advice especially a man that have more tendency to give to go into a relationship when even he haven't fend for himself enough.
