The self-centered thinking.

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When I was young, my mother wanted me to be a nurse. I don't have a passion for anything related to medicine. My mom loves it just because it is easy for those in the medical line to get a job in the country. Even though my mom was right, and now I'm still jobless, it is one of those things that I don't want. I don't want to be a nurse or go through any medical line, or be a medical practitioner. I don't want it, but my mom loves it. She wants it, and she also wants me to want it. I think if she had a better way to convince me to see the opportunities, she might have successfully convinced me to be a medical practitioner because I did not want it, I did not give it my all. She tried to force me, but everything was futile.

The same thing happens between so many parents. They want their children to do what they want and they will always try to force a career that the children might not even have any passion for. One thing that they forget is that children can be manipulated if they have to provide a better way to let the children see that what they are doing is for their good maybe they might have considered and chosen what their parents want them to do and turn into a passion because you want them do what you want It's always difficult on children, it's one struggle of children because most times, all these things our parents want are sometimes difficult for us.

This is one of the ideas we inherit from our parents, which is why we've not been able to have good relationships, flourishing businesses, and so on.

our parents treat us like that and They always care about what they want, not what we want. We grow up believing that when dealing with people, our children, our friends, and even our colleagues, we only talk about what we want. We don't care about what they want, and that is why we've not been able to see things from other people's view, we lack understanding, even with our children. We can not successfully convince them because we don't see things from their point of view, and all that we want to do is to force what we want on them, not how to make them see what we want and also listen to them to see things from my past point of view.

Our difficulty in conversing with others stems from a self-centered nature that causes us to redirect conversations towards ourselves. We prefer to talk about what is happening in our own lives and are less interested in hearing about the lives of others. This self-focus leads to conflicts with those around us as we insist on having things our way and prioritizing our own needs over those of others. Unfortunately, this behavior extends to all areas of our life, including our relationships with loved ones, colleagues, and even our children.

A transmitted disease that has done nothing to us but to retard our growth in all aspects of life.

When we only see things from our own point of view and focus solely on what we want, it becomes difficult to consider the perspectives of others. To become a successful salesperson, it is important to understand your customer's needs and desires, and then cater to them accordingly. It is counterproductive to force your own preferences onto your customers because this will not result in successful sales. Similarly, many parents struggle to choose a career for their children because they are fixated on their own desires instead of considering what their children truly want. This can lead to arguments and negative outcomes. We must break this cycle of self-centered thinking in order to achieve more meaningful results.