One need to accept his mistakes first to improve

Nobody is perfect in this world, and there is no way anyone can achieve the level of perfection, no matter how hard a person tries to achieve it. Whatever we are now at the present time is the consequences of the past decisions we made in our lives. We make many decisions in our lives, and some of those were right, and some of those were wrong. Our right decisions made us confident. And it's very natural in my opinion. Again, every mistake as well as every wrong decision lets us know about our limitations and teaches us lessons.

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I am a human and I was not mature from the beginning. When I was little, I used to think that all the time situations would be in my favor and all the decisions I make should be perfect. I used to think if I prepared well from my side then there should be no error on the way to success. I had a robotic type of mentality and thinking such thing was not surprising. I was always confident with my decisions, and I actually did not hear about what others say because I used to think my judgment is the final judgment because I'm such a person who could think keeping aside all the emotions and there were no way I could be wrong.

It was true that having the ability to make decisions without emotions or keeping aside emotions is a good thing and help to make right judgment and take right decisions in most of the cases, but in my life, they were several important decisions where I actually failed to calculate the outcome. Why I actually failed to predict consequences or became failure. What I actually missed? I actually did not take the uncertainty in consideration. Maybe it's because I was not experienced enough to calculate it otherwise, I was living in a fantasy world. After facing some setbacks back-to-back, I came to my senses. It meant to be realized that because of uncertainty, a perfect plan can be wasted. And I need to prepare myself to handle this kind of situation if such a situation arrives.

I have learned another important thing while I made mistakes and made strong decisions at the beginning. Most of us make mistakes and it's natural but most of us are not ready to accept that it's our mistakes. We always try to give us some reason to prove we are right. Many people say that they are doing that only to console themselves but it's the mistakes we make. I believe that if we are not ready to accept that we make mistakes, it also means that we are not ready to correct our mistakes or learn from it. If we meet any wrong judgment or mistakes and that means that we are responsible for it and we are to blame and we should be ready to face the consequences also. This is a simple reality we need to accept if we want to improve ourselves.