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Never lie to someone who trusts you because a small piece of lie can cause a lot of damage in your relationship with people. Lying is one of the biggest causes of distrust and despite knowing this, a lot of people don't care about the outcome of what their lies will become.
Let's imagine that a guy is wooing a lady for a serious relationship but he has an ugly past. While the girl told him everything about her past before she said yes, he was playing Mr perfect and the girl trusted everything he said but she eventually discovered the truth, how do you think she will feel?
It would hurt her emotions and might even lose her feelings for him.
Trust is a hard feeling to gain and losing it many times do not end well. It is more of the why I always open up to people who I know confide in me, a lot of people make the mistake of not doing so and by the time the truth about a particular thing you are lying about is uncovered distrust sets into your relationship with those involved.
It is no new thing that lying can end the existence of trust in a relationship.
Some years ago, my friend fell in love with the wrong guy but then she was blindfolded by his fake love and lifestyle meanwhile he's only interested in her body because she is so beautiful.
There was a particular day my friend wanted to prank her boyfriend that she was pregnant so she went to his house without telling him and she was surprised to meet a lady and a baby boy at his apartment. She never thought of him having another relationship so she just greeted her and waited for him to arrive.
My friend said the lady didn't blink her eye and she just kept looking at her until the guy came back.
She greeted him normally because the prank has to be real, she was still talking when the other lady called him, "honey".
The name hit her differently and she knew something was fishy. My friend said she asked the lady what her relationship was with her boyfriend but she didn't respond, she only carried her boy and went into the room.
From the beginning of the relationship, my friend saw the signs of him deceiving her but she will always say that he loves her and that's why he was lying because he doesn't want her to go.
What a lame excuse, imagine a guy you called your boyfriend making a call you saying, "I love you Mama" and when you ask who was that?
He will say, "It's my junior sister" or "It's my mom" I don't dispute the fact that he can say that to his loved ones but this my friend's case looks suspicious and all her friends including me tried to make her see the truth about this guy but she will tell us to mind our business.
I wasn't surprised after she narrated everything to me because I have always suspected that the guy had a skeleton in his cupboard. What else could you be expecting than a shock from him now my friend has been used and dumped meanwhile he has a family already which means anytime he says I love you Mama he's talking to his wife in the presence of his girlfriend.
And after all that, my friend said, "I will never trust anyone who is not straightforward with me and I never let anyone blindfold me with fake love again". She automatically lost trust in everyone.
Most of the time we see a broken relationship, it is because they built it on deceit. Everything was built on lies and that is why it can never last.
Most people out there are so full of lies, pretense, deceitful lifestyles, and so on. You can imagine how my friend's time has been wasted for years and it is not that she doesn't have people asking her out but she thought that's the final bus stop. She thought she has found the one for her not knowing she has been dining with the devil all this while.
It is good to do findings of him or her before offering your beautiful heart to them because life is full of Distrust and the victim of these liars out there will find it so hard to trust anyone again.