By not burdening the prospective daughter-in-law through the burdensome material demands. Married is worship, marriage aims to keep young children from falling into sin, it is fitting that the guardian simplify his affairs and lighten his burden. Difficult affairs and heavy burdens can be a barrier for young people to get married and then they can become entangled by the webs of sin that these days are scattered in every corner of life, plus the increase of married age girls who are delayed marriage and the edges fate of being an old maid.
Weighing the prospective son-in-law with material demands is not like making her own daughter as new merchandise will be released at a high price. Actually no matter how much material demanded by a guardian of her husband's future husband is not comparable and not worth it. Who is willing to give up his honor only with countless material if not for Allah's Biblical 'alamin mensyariatnya
