Imagine been in a room filled with people of different languages, not one person can understand what each person is saying and then suddenly three persons come into that room and speak three different languages, these new people automatically gain the trust of those speaking the same language in the room. Even if they don't know eachother before now,they automatically connect and just stick to eachother. It's the same thing with Love. It's so beautiful when you can speak the same language with the person of your dreams and just easily understand each other without any stress or obstacles.
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Well I've had people mention these as there love language so I might as well look into them, please kindly comment which one resonates with you.
And I dare say that no one is superior to the other one, all of them are just means people communicate to there partners saying "I really Want to See You Happy"
But then things can quickly go sour if one person is showing love in a particular way, but it's expected in a different way.
I saw a video of two couples, (It was a Skit Actually) the girl said "I am thirsty I need Water"
The guy goes on to say oh , my love here's a bouquet of flowers for you, the girls collects it but still wants water. I offers her a new set of girly gadgets, she's excited but still goes ahead and asks for water, the guy brings a full size platter of different foods. She receives it but continues to ask for water. The man got upset and started to quarrel about how he has done everything for her, but still got nothing other than her ungrateful attitude and complaints.
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It's the same with speaking the same love language you'd get frustrated when you long for Words of Affirmation , but all you get instead is physical touch. By this singular act you start to gradually withdraw from your partner because they're speaking a different language from the one you understand.
It can be quite difficult to get a partner that speak the same love language, but it's not difficult to get one who wants to love you in the ways you'd appreciate and understand. This effort alone is Top Tier
