I had a wall within my heart. It was called purity culture. If you're not familiar with purity culture, please see more of my posts on this subject, especially my review of The Scarlet Virgins. But here's

In this solo episode, recorded via phone, Rebecca discusses some of the issues that come about from social media fallout of sexual assault. They include: Projection Healthy Boundaries Bullying from other

In this episode, Rebecca discussing the second most important part of a woman's identity in purity culture: fertility. If you would like to find more of Rebecca’s content like media appearances, more podcast

#44 - Pain and Anger as a Blessing In this episode, Rebecca discusses how our pain and anger from our experiences can actually be a blessing. Listen Online Listen in iTunes #45 - Which is Worse, Promiscuity

In this episode Rebecca interviews Kenny Lyons, a young man who has experienced the ramifications of the courtship movement firsthand. Listen in iTunes Listen Online If you would like to find more of Rebecca’s

In this episode, Rebecca discusses purity and innocence after marriage and throughout life. Listen in iTunes Listen Online If you would like to find more of Rebecca’s content like media appearances, more

My latest podcast interview. My normal take on purity culture, with a bit more redpill than usual. Disruptive love interview

In this episode, Rebecca discusses understanding and bridging the generational gap in thinking about purity culture and courtship. Listen Online Listen in iTunes If you would like to find more of Rebecca’s

I've been a fan of Taylor Swift's from the moment I heard "Our Song" when I was a young teen. My best friend and I used to set our cell phone ringtones to Taylor Swift songs and then not answer

I have not cried this hard in a long time. Huge, huge thank you to Sisters of Katie Luther, I am so honored that they have reviewed my book, I had no idea until a friend sent it to me. Words fail to express

In this episode, Rebecca discusses the dynamics of sex within purity culture and the focus on destruction rather than creation. If you would like to find more of Rebecca’s content like media appearances,

#37 - The Ways Purity Culture Led to Developing Anorexia In this episode, Rebecca discusses the things in purity culture that led to her development of anorexia. If you would like to find more of Rebecca's

If you've been raised in purity culture, sex can be incredibly frustrating and you may be tempted to fake an orgasm to make your spouse happy...but don't! In this episode of The Scarlet Virgins Podcast,

Hey guys! This is a podcast episode that has been adapted from my article “How To Get Used To Sex When You’ve Been Raised To Be Ashamed”: If you’ve been raised in purity culture and have trouble owning

The Scarlet Virgins Episode #26 – Discernment in Recovery Groups For folks who are recovering from childhood abuses (legalism, physical abuse, cults, etc), recovery groups seem like a good resource for

My most recent podcast episode is out! #27 - 10 Tips for Dealing With a Sexually Frigid Spouse Purity culture often reinforces frigid behaviors that already are impressed upon women when it comes to sex.