Toxic can also be a comfort to some, to some, anything outside the nature of toxic acts or toxic relationships or even toxic substances.
Let's take drugs for example, we all know how much it's not good for the health, how it can damage and affect our entire life, including our lifestyle, but then there are still some people that are not comfortable when they do not take it, some says how they can't sleep or eat if they do not take any if these toxic substances, is it supposed to be so? Not at all.
There literally can be different reasons why people choose to remain those who are bad to them.
One thing we should know is that no one wants to stay with people that are not adding anything to them in one way or the other, I mean think about it, why will you want to stay with someone that has nothing to offer in anyway, I mean even the evil ones or the devil will also want to drop something do you can tap from it then they lure you to their traps...
Another reason people might not have another choice than to just stay in pain or a toxic relationships as a victim, is when they are threatened to do things out of your will, I mean when you see death or unnecessary punishment in front of me for what I did it even what I didn't do, the fear of facing that music is another reason why I'll just not follow my will but the will of the wicked or toxic person in which I'm a victim to.
So I'm going to tell us about a short story about someone I heard about that was involved in a toxic relationship.
I heard that There was a lady that was a lady that while she was growing up, her father didn't let her go to the university but let her sister go to the university and so she was pained, that she was treated as if she was nothing part of the family.
Her father maltreated her till she got used to the maltreatment and she grew up with that same mind set that this is how a lady like her is to be treated all the days of her lives.
She entered a relationship with a man that was very toxic, beats her up, he treats her like she's nothing and appease her with gifts and she'll forgive him, she said the more he maltreated her, the more she loves the man (that was a lot of trouble if you ask me)
After a long time of these suffering, she broke up with this devil in man kind and dated s very lovely and cool person who they later married.
This man showed her love like never before, he treated her as a man is to treat his woman with love, but based on this woman's experience, she wasn't comfortable with the live the man was showering her, she believed it was all pretence, that one day will come when there'll be a true colour and he'll beat her up, she waited for that time both patiently and angrily, so many times she'll look for his trouble expecting him to at least raise a finger, but unfortunately for her he didn't do such.
And so with time she got to realise that love in a relationship is better than a toxic relationship.
The morals is that try to show people who are in toxic relationships love, love that they are missing, love that they need to grow away from that mindset if bondage. There's nothing fun being with someone that's toxic.
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