Raising our children: Tantrums

The role of mother is one of the most difficult tasks that we have as human beings, the reality is that God did not give us a manual on how to raise our children, or how to act in the face of the different circumstances that are presented to us throughout of the life.

I have always feared the rebellion in young children, those who every time we see in a mall or toy stores writhe or throw tantrums because their parents do not like them buying X or Y thing, or they just do not do it that the children want. And worse, see how the parents mistreat them to reprimand them, which is extremely serious.

Tantrums are the way children use to express frustration or anger, and they can range from screaming, crying, throwing themselves to the floor to beating themselves.

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In my case, it has given me very good results first of all to be very loving and loving with my daughter, to have patience, and to be a good businessman.

You will say, businessman? As well?

I explain to you, obviously it has happened to me that when passing a window of toys my daughter falls in love with some and I can not buy it .. There is the dilemma: How NOT to buy the toy to my daughter without using the word NO?

Well in this case, I prefer to tell you, Daughter, come, we better go for a delicious ice cream of your favorite flavor, I'm sure you'll enjoy it a lot! Of course, I'm not saying he's going to get excited, but if this will prevent a tantrum.

I think it's all about how we say things, imagine it's a rainy afternoon, my daughter wants to go to the park .. It's not the same to say "We will not go to the park because it's raining and we will not go out" to say "Honey it's raining, yes we go out like this we can get sick, better spend the afternoon at home and see your favorite movie”.

To conclude, I think we do not have manuals to raise our children, but if we have a lot of information on the network, other people's experiences, and professional information that serves as a tool to help us when we do not know how to act in the different situations that may arise. present with our children.

And to you, have you had any situation of tantrums with your children?

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