You do not need to be a gig to please your partner. If your partner is not very willing to sex, maybe you do not pay attention to these details that could make him a great lover.
Do you complicate yourself by putting into practice all the techniques of a book you have bought lately and your partner in bed does not have a hair? Actually, there are some very simple things that any man can put into practice and that are more effective than the most complicated technique when it comes to pleasing a lady.
I've put together a list of 10 tips that will make any man a better lover in bed. Are here:
10.- Be Clean.
Our natural smells have their appeal, but no one wants to go to bed with a stinking guy. If possible, take a shower or, at least, give your faithful partner down a good rinse with soap before getting into bed. She will like to have you closer if you smell fresh and clean.
9. Talk to her.
Communication is undoubtedly the most important aspect of a good sexual relationship. Gently ask what you want, how you feel and how you can improve your skills to meet it. What's more, a conversation about sex is good as an "warm-up" is better than an erotic toy.
8.- Go slow.
The "quickies" have their moment, but more often than not a woman will thank her for doing things slowly and taking the time to put her on top, which means giving her space to reach orgasm at her own pace. If you need a little help, there are condoms that have Benzocaine, a substance that will help you control your ejaculation. Another effective way to endure is to give yourself a "hand" before the appointment, which has a second erection with no anxiety or trouble, those who endure more.
7. The perfect missionary.
Before you start experimenting with new positions, techniques or scenarios, make sure you master the "basics". Do not assume that you are touching the precise points in the missionary's pose, for example. Find out ways to perfect it and use it on your partner.
6. Do not press it.
A good lover knows the difference between proposing new and exciting things in the bedroom and pushing her partner to do something she does not want. Pushing the limits a little can be stimulating, but you must learn to recognize when a does not mean no. Trying to push will only kill you.
5.- Plan.
Spontaneity is essential in good sex, but so is giving yourself time to plan it. You do not have to write it in your calendar. Just let her know, at a certain time of the day, that she would like to spend quality time with her and give her time and date.
4.- Use little helpers.
Helps such as toys, lubricants or massage oils can improve your sex life. Do not rely only on your "tools" even if you are a gifted one.
3.- Do not hesitate to praise it.
A woman always loves a compliment, so, if your beautiful girl, tell her. Your compliments will suffice to warm it. And you do not necessarily have to use words. An unexpected and ardent kiss may be enough.
2. Pay attention to their erogenous zones.
Do not limit yourself to your breasts or your crotch when it comes to giving you pleasure. They are the obvious points, but there are many more areas in the body of a woman waiting to be stimulated. Pay attention to the lobes of your ears, your thighs, your feet, your neck and, of course, your lips.
1.- Be generous.
Each time, at some point, a good lover should devote all his attention to his partner without expecting reciprocity. It is not about making unilateral stimulation a habit, but make a deal so that one night is totally dedicated to your satisfaction, it will make you feel special and will show you how much you are interested. The added benefit is that she will probably want to return the favor one night in the future.
Well guys here I have left some wonderful advice. To put them into practice.
