Life runs through a series of choices,one after another.We are continuously faced with a choice;Shall I do this or that? Shall I say yes or no ? Choices are of two kinds:"regression-choices and growth-choices."Take a girl who is shy with strangers.She is at home.The doorbell rings.On the sly she looks through a side window and sees a stranger.She is then faced with a choice:"Shall I go and open the door and meet the stranger and thus I shall learn to talk to strangers?Or shall I remain here and let someone else go and open the door bacause I am feeling shy?"If the girl makes the first choice,then she is making the growth-choice,for she takes the opportunity to learn the ability of dealing with strangers,and thus she grows as a person.If she opts for not going to open the door,she is making a regression-choice,that is,a choice that prevents from growing in the ability to meet strangers.The choices that you make change your life forever.
Every day you are faced with growth-choices and regression-choices.It is up to you to profit by these opportunities.No one else can take a decision for you just like no amount of coercion can make the girl to open the door unless she makes a personal choice to do so in order to encounter her demons and to fight them in order to oust them from her life forever.Try and make some growth-choices,and enjoy their enriching experience.
