Una de mis pasiones como siempre es mi familia y en especial mis hijos, apenas vi esta iniciativa en una publicaci贸n de la amiga 
One of my passions as always is my family and especially my children, I just saw this initiative in a publication of the friend
Mis hijos ya crecieron y ahora son adolescentes con nuevas amistades, nuevos gustos y su personalidades han ido cambiando, ninguno es igual al otro, uno es m谩s cerrado en sus cosas y otro es m谩s abierto al di谩logo y a contar su vida personal sin tanta pena.
La comunicaci贸n se vuelve un poco dif铆cil con los adolescentes pues muchas veces nos ven a los padres como los que juzgamos y condenamos sus acciones, sin embargo solo queremos lo mejor para ellos porque los amamos, ser谩 que aveces inspiramos miedo?
My children have grown up and now they are teenagers with new friendships, new tastes and their personalities have been changing, none is the same as the other, one is more closed in his things and the other is more open to dialogue and to tell his personal life without so much shame.
Communication becomes a little difficult with teenagers because many times they see us parents as the ones who judge and condemn their actions, however we only want the best for them because we love them, could it be that sometimes we inspire fear?
Cuando fui adolescente fui dif铆cil tengo que aceptarlo, le saque canas verdes a mi madre con mi actitud, pero es que mi madre tampoco hablaba mucho solo su mirada y pocas palabras, miro atr谩s y creo que como madre siempre uno quiere hacerlo mejor y eso es lo que he tratado con mis hijos,.estoy aceptando que crecieron y que yo pase por all铆.
Siempre trato de escucharlos porque a mi no me escucharon mucho, aprendo a soportar sus silencios los cuales me matan pero debo entender que no puedo tratar de sacar las palabras con gritos o con amenazas, simplemente respiro y dejo que ellos traten de hablar y si no es as铆 igual los respetos, de eso se trata de respetar esos silencios que nos ensordecen a nosotros.
Algo que respeto de ellos son sus decisiones, siempre les digo que las tomen bien porque van a repercutir en sus vidas por siempre, me gusta que sean independientes, les hago siempre saber lo bueno y lo malo, les hago saber lo que pienso, pero sus decisiones siempre depender谩n de ellos y cuando digo esto se trata de sus estudios, de sus parejas, de todo.
When I was a teenager I was difficult I have to accept it, I brought out green grays to my mother with my attitude, but is that my mother also did not talk much just her look and few words, I look back and I think as a mother you always want to do better and that is what I have tried with my children,.I am accepting that they grew up and that I went through there.
I always try to listen to them because they didn't listen to me much, I learn to put up with their silences which kill me but I have to understand that I can't try to get the words out with yelling or threats, I just breathe and let them try to talk and if not I still respect them, that's what it's all about respecting those silences that deafen us.
Something I respect about them is their decisions, I always tell them to make them well because they will affect their lives forever, I like them to be independent, I always let them know the good and the bad, I let them know what I think, but their decisions will always depend on them and when I say this it is about their studies, their partners, everything.
Me desped铆 de mis ni帽os y ahora dej茅 entrar a mis adolescente, ahora mis casi adultos los trato como se lo merecen han crecido, les repeto, les amo y espero que se conviertan en adultos fuertes, con decisiones firmes, se que se van a caer pero tambi茅n se que se van a levantar, pues est谩n criados para ello, no hay derrotas solo ense帽anzas.
Ya no van conmigo a todos lados como antes que hasta en el ba帽o estaban, ahora muchas veces voy sola, pero as铆 es la parte de la vida los p谩jaros aprenden a volar y nosotros tambi茅n necesitamos tiempo, ellos siempre vuelven al nido as铆 sea por ratos y nosotros siempre vamos a estar para ellos.
I said goodbye to my children and now I let in my teenagers, now my almost adults I treat them as they deserve, they have grown up, I respect them, I love them and I hope they become strong adults, with firm decisions, I know they will fall but I also know they will get up, because they are raised for it, there are no defeats, only teachings.
They no longer go everywhere with me as before, even in the bathroom, now I often go alone, but that is the part of life, birds learn to fly and we also need time, they always return to the nest even for short periods of time and we will always be there for them.
Est谩 ha sido mi participaci贸n, en cuanto al tema propuesto, por la amiga
Gracias a ustedes por ser parte de mi blog, invito a participar a 
This has been my participation, regarding the topic proposed by my friend
Thanks to you for being part of my blog, I invite to participate to
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