This cuts across all ages and all works of life regardless of your status.
Often times, this occur when there is any form of crises against the individual. It is a very powerful silent eliminator of success. The disadvantages are extremely grievous.
Self pity cripples an individual from moving forward in life, or can hinder one from achieving a dream prior to when it was supposed.
These aftermath can never be overemphasized. In fact, it makes the person a number one failure in life. The side-effects are very very extreme!
Now, be informed that pitying oneself over any crises can never produce any solution to the situation.
Again, it will make you to behave in a way that get others obliged to have pity on you, which in turn leads into more depression.
Remember, self pity causes suppression, depression and soullessness both mentally, emotionally, physically, socially, educationally, financially, even spiritually and health wise.
The individual finds it difficult to do anything personally useful when living in such condition.
No matter the situation you find yourself in, whether being bereaved of a loved one; being mocked or humiliated or ridiculed by anyone in anyway; your parents or guidance not being able to provide for you the level of education you aspired, or that your family is poor; you not liking your look, appearance or the way you were born; your expectations not coming forth or things not working well at the moment; experiencing rejection or abandonment!
Time may fail to keep highlighting on these preludes to self pity.
However, no matter what it may be, don't ever allow any of such to penetrate into you if being useful to yourself and your generation is a priority to you.
Shun that earnestly with all the momentum in your thinking capability!
Hear this...
If anyone rejects you or lives your life, don't disturb yourself because 'those who lives or rejects you never deserved you. Soon you will be accepted by a better person or people who really deserves you.
If your parent says there's no finance to sponsor your education or career, don't be moved by that. Trust in you creator, and look out there, you will surely get help.
Learn to move on with your life no matter what!
Your limitations should be your greatest ally, so that you can reverse the case, not by suppressing yourself into self pity that would proffer no difference but rather makes it worst.
Don't forget that your greatness lies in that which causes self pity if you can work against it!
