Destiny is mysterious.. it had been set even before we were born. Some people are glad to be born as a rich people, famous people while other people are glad eventhough they were born as poor people, usual people. It is not about what we re destined to be, but how we deal with it and how to accept that destiny sincerely is the most important thing. We can choose our friends but we cant never choose our family or relatives since they are destined to be ours. The best thing to do is just accept and try to find every good thing in our each destiny.