There are things which are not in our control. Yet some people try to force their way onto others. We are in a situation, which made us to think the influence of human as well as the power of destiny. Unable to decide what to do we let it to the destiny to decide.
We were getting ready for a grand wedding of my cousin at home. All the preparation were underway. The bride family too were prepairing for the occasion. Both of our family invested a lot of time , money and energy time. However the destiny has something else to decide. The joyful atmosphere turned into sorrow due to the passing of one of my Aunt. At this time of sorrow and grievance, we are not supposed to organised any celebration function at home. This put us to delay our wedding. We incur huge loss because of this unforseen event. The tent, the shopping, the invitation card and many other things were of no use. The same things goes with the Bride family too. All their prepartion were undone because of the event and they too incur losses. Now they want to have the wedding done as soon as the 14 days get over. But for us this is not possible. We cant undertake any celebrstion before the 21 days. The bride family is forcing us to get the mareiage done, else they will turn away from the alliance. They are getting bit rigid as well as harsh with their words.
Listening to their words, made us to decide to get rid off the alliance. They were not ready for the marriage at any future date. They want it to get done as soon as possible. We are not denying with the marriage but dont want to get it done so soon. We are ready to formalised the same at any future date. But the rough words from their side made us to rethink over the alliance. A mareiage alliance is all about bringing two family together. They are supposed to stand and cooperate with each other. But seeing their attitude, made us different in our opinion. Those who does not ready to accept the fateful event and forcing us for the marriage. A marriage at our home is supposed to be done with auspicious date and time. But seeing the way the bride family forcing, we are not ready to get the wedding done.
The circumstances at home is not in our favor, and we are not ready to compromise with the events like that of wedding. We tried all possible 3fforts and scenario but seeing the rigidness of the bride family, we are not ready to bow down. They too need to understand the situation and plan to get the wedding on auspicious time.
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