This is close to home, as my dear friend lost his wife last month. Then my other half lost her father in the same month. It sounds wrong to say, but there's really not a good time to die. But as I read your words I see that you and your husband understand that statement. I don't feel you were wrong to think you were spending too much time on things that focused less on the ways of life. You were just living.... As the Inner Bkocks Community says: #lifehappening. But I do know this... You said it perfectly; "Death is a good teacher". I hope you were able to spend time with the family, and know that I send condolences, respect, and love...

Wes...