Singles Day has passed.Don't make yourself become a really singleton.

Singles Day has passed.Does your heart feel uncomfortable?When you see someone has parner,only you are a person.

Maybe you are deep in love,Maybe you are never tried to fall in love.Maybe you just lost your lover.(em...) Some people are single,but they are happy every day.Some people have a lover,but they are sad every day.Why?How should we treat this matter correctly?How to avoid becoming a real single person?

I want to share with you something about my friend.

Yesterday, November 11th, singles day.One of my high school classmates called me on the phone,he is a simple and honest boy.I am very surprise.Because, since high school, we don't get much contact, just greeting occasionally.He told me on the phone that he was out of lover.One day before singles day, his girlfriend didn't want to be with him, and he asked me how I could distract him?He said he had insomnia, fell asleep at 4 in the morning and woke up at 6 a.m..He climbed the mountain in the morning and drove, but he was in a very low mood.I comforted him for hours, but he still felt like he was an imperfect man.He used to be optimistic,but now ,He thinks he's nothing.poor reading,few friends,short,One ear can't hear,myopia,appearance looks old, fat, and not capable.He doesn't want to make a girlfriend anymore,I was sad to see him like this.It's not scary to be single, but it's scary to give yourself up.Don't make yourself become a really singleton.

What should we do?We should enrich our life, and we should have a belief, constantly improve ourselves, make ourselves more and more perfect!!!

NO1:Body Building
It's hard to change your height, but you can change your body shape, change your mental outlook, and make yourself more attracted to the opposite sex.Fitness has many advantages, for example, strengthen your self-confidence, know more friends, in the gym, there are people from all walks of life, they can broaden your horizons, let you learn more, know more friends.

NO2:Reading
Reading, can let you calm down, self-cultivation, learn knowledge, but also can improve their own temperament.The more you know, the more you can talk to people.

NO3:Tourism
Tourism is a good experience, some people say, if you go to travel, your mood will change.You can see every corner of the world scenery, the world is so big, why don't you go to play, can feel the nature, feel the local customs and practices in different regions.

hahaha!!!I like the three ways mentioned above, and if you have other methods, you can leave a message!

Finally, thanks for watching , give you a kiss... >3<

双十一刚过，是不是有一种被虐的心塞感。看着大家出双入对，自己只有一个人，孤零零的。

或许你正在热恋；或许你从没有试过恋爱；又或许你刚刚失恋。这些都不算什么！！！有的人单身，但他却活得充实自在；有的人恋爱中，但他已经失恋了。那么我们怎么看待这件事呢，怎样才能避免让自己成为真正的光棍呢？

和大家说一件我身边的事吧！

昨天，也就是11月11日，光棍节。我的一位高中老同学打电话找我了，是一位很憨厚的男孩子，我很惊讶！因为高中毕业之后我们便很少联系了，只是偶尔会相互问好。他打电话和我说，他失恋了。就在光棍节前一天，他女朋友和他提出了分手。他问我，怎么样可以转移注意力，可怜的他，昨晚失眠了，4点入睡，6点又起床。一大早又去了爬山，又开车去散心，心情还是无法得到平静。我开导了他几个小时。可是他一直觉得自己是一个很差劲的人。我没想到平时看起来没心没肺，整天自夸的人，今天竟然和我说，他自己人际圈窄，读书差，不够高，一个耳朵听不到，眼睛又看不清，又长得老，又胖，又没有能力，不想再去祸害其他人了。看到这么沮丧的他，我也觉得很难过。其实单身，成为光棍，并不可怕，可怕的是你自己已经放弃了你自己，让自己彻头彻尾地成为了真正的光棍。

那我们应该怎么做呢？我们应该丰富自己的生活，并且要有一个信仰，不断提高自己，让自己变得越来越完美！！！

第一：健身
身高，是很难再提高了，但是你可以通过健身改变你的体质，改变你的体型，改变你的外在精神面貌，让你看起来更加吸引异性。健身的好处有很多。不仅可以增强自信心，还能结交更多的朋友，健身房中，有来自社会各个阶层的人，他们可以让你看得更多，了解更多的东西，扩大你的交际圈。

第二：看书
看书，可以让一个人平静下来，修身养性，学到知识的同时，又可以提高自身的气质。只有懂得更多，和人交际的时候才能有更多的话题。

第三：旅游
旅游是一种很不错的体验，有人说，旅游一趟回来，会让人感到豁然开朗，整个人的心境都会变得不一样。也可以让你看看世界上每一个角落的风光，世界那么大，何不多出去走走，感受一下大自然，感受每一个地区不同的风土风情。

哈哈！！！我个人比较喜欢这三种方式，如果你们还有什么其他丰富自己生活的方法，也可以一起说说呢，

最后，英文不太好，谢谢大家体谅！！！不嫌弃就好，谢谢大家坚持看到最后哈！么么哒 >3<