Everybody lives their life to their own likeness. The world is filled with different characters and different sets of people, some are understanding, while some are not.
We live in a world filled with people, but atimes it feels empty because of the behavior of the people around us.
Some people just need that love, encouragement and healing words, even if they make mistakes now, they can be better someday and still help others find themselves in the same situation they were once in.
Violence, anger,mockery and malice is never the way to go; we are humans, we get offended sometimes, but the way we react to our emotions is what makes us who we are, and no matter what, we have to try to keep that standard.
I would like to tell a story about something that actually happened in a neighboring community of mine.
A woman got pregnant, and her so-called fiancé denied the pregnancy and left her for another woman. After some time, she got married and gave birth to a baby boy. He grew up but eventually fell into the wrong hands, and he began to steal and do all sorts of things.
He once confronted his biological father but was denied by him. After some years, his mom died living him and his stepdad. After his mom's death, he changed and was living his life without stealing or doing those things he normally does
One morning, he saw his stepdad's brothers quarreling, and he decided to go talk to them. But it was as if they were waiting for him, because on getting there, he asked them to stop, and it wasn't a good idea for brothers to fight.
Both of them called him a thief and went forward to ask if he really knew his biological father, the used his past lifestyle to insult him. He went away from there with tears and committed suicide. People blamed his stepfather's brothers and said they caused the death.
He lived his life wrong. When it was time to amend his ways, he committed suicide, which tells a lot of things: how wish he never wanted to make peace, he would have been alive now, and how wish he controlled his emotions, he would also have been alive now.
It's really a sad end because if they truly knew he wanted the best for them and he is trying to change, I don't think they would have said all those words they said to him, but on the other hand, that shouldn't warrant him to take his life. He was passing through a tough time in his life, and yet they made him feel rejected.
As I said before, humans are different, and we just don't know the right approach, mistake re always involved in our daily lives. People have to make others feel rejected or unwanted, and the pain that comes from such incidents may never find healing for a long time.
Thank you for reading.
