When a man sees a woman focused on her own dreams, believe me she will become more attractive, sexy and compatible. He will be all out to have her. If she tells him i don't want sex, he will wait!
When a man is serious for commitment, beauty is the least attribute he considers. He seeks character, independence, ability to grow and build him in pursuit of his dreams, and originality.
A purpose oriented woman is extremely sexy to a man. Check out, most awesome men don't marry overrated pretty ladies.