When we talk about that appearance, people think that it's just about wearing their flashy things or making people envy the clothes you wear. But your parents gives you that social dominance, that respect, that impression, that lust.
Humans are controlled by that deception of how we are perceived, the deception of perception. They don't treat you how you are but they treat you how they feel you look. It should not be so but that is our reality, we don't know.
But both our physical appearance, the way we dress and the way we talk. Believe in yourself, have confidence, have the best intelligence or hygiene in the world. But when you do not appear properly, it lifts you down.
Others believing in you begins from seeing you in the right way. And you must also believe in yourself because that is how life starts for.
Believe in yourself, appear well and have a good appearance for people.