Sometimes, we work incredibly hard on something, yet after days, weeks, or even months of effort, when we look back, it feels like nothing is changing.
We study every day, but our marks don't improve immediately.
We exercise, but we don't see any noticeable difference in the mirror.
We learn a new skill, yet it feels like we haven't really mastered anything.
We work on a project, but the finish line still seems very far away.
When we don't see the results of our hard work, we start to think it might be futile—and this is where many of us stop. We abandon the task we started halfway through.
A Stone and 101 Attempts
I once heard a story about a stonecutter that has stayed with me.
A stonecutter was trying to break a large stone. He raised his hammer and struck the stone. He struck it once; nothing happened. Then he struck it again. Then a third time. Then a fourth...
He kept striking the stone continuously—20 times, 50 times, 80 times, 100 times...
Yet, not even a single crack appeared on the stone. An outsider watching him might have wondered, "What is this man doing for so long? Nothing is happening." But the stonecutter persisted, and then he struck the hammer for the 101st time. This time, the stone broke.
So, the question arises: did the stone break solely because of that 101st blow?
The answer is no. Because the first blow played just as much of a role in breaking that stone as the 101st blow did. The first 100 blows accomplished work that wasn't immediately visible to us. And perhaps the same thing happens in our lives.
We start a task and work hard at it for a few days. But when we don't see any results, we feel like we're putting in so much effort yet nothing is happening. So, we give up.
At that moment, we likely don't realize just how close we were to that 101st blow.
When we start working hard on something, we don't see the progress, but we are improving internally. We begin to understand a little more, perform a little better, and become a little more disciplined. It’s just that the results of that improvement aren't immediately visible. We always think we need to bring about a massive change all at once—that starting tomorrow, we’ll completely transform our lives: studying for five hours a day, exercising daily, and learning a new skill.And when we don't see progress after a few days, we feel like we won't be able to do it. However, we don't need to set such a massive goal; we simply need to improve by 1% each day.
Instead of trying to do everything at once, it is far better to make small, daily improvements. This allows us to learn more and gain a deeper understanding.
Therefore, rather than trying to improve ourselves by 100% all at once, it is better to focus on improving by 1% every day.
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