Hello guys. Good afternoon (Nigerian time), and welcome to my blog.
If as an adult lady, you still feel exasperated or bothered when called cheap, then you've got a lot of growing up to do.
Listen, there's no such thing as cheap. You alone own your body, no one else does. So, why bat an eyelid when called cheap? I consider it to be caveman trash-talk, which shouldn't scratch the surface of your emotions.
What makes a girl cheap in the first place? Having sex? Wooing a guy? Flirting? Admitting and expressing love? Not telling a wooer "I'd think about it" and just saying "yes" when that's what she really wants? Grow up girls, these things don't matter no more!
I know some religious people, virgins in particular, can really be sanctimonious at times, and can use uncouth words such as cheap or slut on others, just because they, unlike them, decide not to repress their hormones. It shouldn't sway you. People are free to think and say whatever they want, besides they don't pay your bills, so why care?
Don't feel worthless baby girl, your value isn't attached to these things. Have sex if you want to. You're an adult. Own your orgasm. You want love, sex, or benefits from anyone you deem fit, go for it.
Hard-to-get is old school, don't lose what you cherish just because the society says you should play tough. This isn't 1980, 2018 in a bit.
