Every day people go through inferiority complex especially among peer groups and is more common on the elite when it has to deal with fashion, wealth, class... It seems no more genuine love.
Mostly people want something in exchange, nothing goes for nothing. I once felt inferior among my peers especially people I called friends seven years ago those peers regard and give value to people with class, fashion sense and money they see having latest phone is a great achievement to them wearing the most expensive shoes, bags, clothes is what really define them big... well I couldn't fit in to those lifestyle because my family doesn't have such money to waste but I was really happy of what I have and I believe with time and hard work more will come my way to me what really define one is the goodness in that person not the other way round... Then I hardly buy new clothes for myself apart from second hand clothes that is less expensive, life is not rosy so I had to manage with the little my parent could afford, some of them in their league of friendship tried to convince me to look beyond hard work pays by doing the obvious (their kind of life style) but I refuse to hookup with men just for money. So I weren't looking the way they want me to, so I was seen as local and classless and my opinion isn't relevant anymore I was rejected I felt bad but I couldn't tread my values, pride and principles all for the sake of money and living big to be recognize in school... to me life is simple for one to complicate it with the ridiculous believes like that I just have to tread with caution.
I suffered rejection I felt less of myself, unimportant and incomplete, my friends and i have really come a long way for me to be treated that way. Of a truth they are good but the only problem is their lifestyle it was hard for me to let go so many thoughts were running through my mind as humans even though I made the right decision I couldn't help to question myself feeling unworthy to be disregards in respect to my decision, why should my choice of lifestyle affect our friendship is it what friendship is all about? I couldn't help but to feel so little of myself and for awhile I have to quickly snap out of it and I started to exercise positive words on myself which was a great help in building my self esteem back i told myself friends or no friends I don't need them to complete me, I am more than enough I can pull through no matter the difficulty for a while I had to practice on how to deal with things on my own and not to depend on positive affirmations. Inferiority complex can destroy one's self esteem and rational assessment mostly it takes long for one to overcome it or move on due to that feeling of not good enough.sometimes inferiority complex can make one question their principles and capability, is really a worst feeling!
I appreciate your time here as always bye for now.