I don’t really talk about my girl very much, because I think for the most part it’s better for me to speak in generalities to speak to the most people.
But, once in a while, I like to bring her up as an example and use her in a story.
This post is one of those times.
People ask how I’ve managed to make a (so far) successful relationship with a foreign girl for this many years. And doing this while moving countries, learning a language, building a social circle, adapting to a new culture, etc, etc.
The truth is?
It has been difficult at times.
Probably more so than I really have ever admitted to and talked about on these emails.
Look, I firmly believe that men in the Western world should be looking elsewhere for many facets of life.
At my deepest core beliefs, I think you should challenge every narrative you’ve ever been told — especially with the big 3 — bitches, business, and “bigness” (i.e. health).
Anyways.
What I mean to say is this:
There’s a very specific list of things that have allowed our relationship to last as long as it has.
Some of it is just good game and having a good girl.
Others?
Revolved around fortunate luck and circumstance.