Ok, so I haven't been very active lately, I just couldn't find the time to write. I'm not sure how the next few weeks will go, but I'd love to create some new posts. And I guess I'll start today!
If you love a flower, don't pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies and ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation. ~ Osho
Jealousy, clinginess, controlling your partner's life choices- that never does any good for a relationship. Trust, however, is the basis for everything. If you trust your partner, you give them space to grow into the version of themselves that they want to be. And you need to be there, not trying to change them but allowing them to develop as they wish.
That's what I like so much about this quote. It shows that stubbornly holding on to the version of the person you fell in love with is difficult if you forget that they are a living being open to change. You can't posess them. All you can do is appreciate.
