As a wedding photographer, I get to experience the wedding fully in a different style. You are mostly with the couple and you get to see the fine details of the whole event. This can be intoxicating as you experience a flamboyant joyful moment all the time. But this can not be said for all weddings. Some couples fight from the beggining of the make up till the finish of the wedding reception. This has actually raised an alarm and am beginning to question the essence of wedding if all that the couple will be doing is to fight. Do some people marry their enemies?
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This is a well known issue of discussion and my views are just redundancy and built upon opinions. But I am really perplexed with the turn out of some weddings. I quiet remember a couple that I photographed their wedding just some few weeks ago. How happy the two were on the day. It took me by a surprise when I heard they have filled for a divorce. I wouldn't jump into the details of the turn out of events. One thing that I know for sure is that they weren't compatible. They must have "loved" each other but were incompatible. At least, they couldnt fight their way through the marriage and resolve the issue. Is this truly love.
I believe we have reduced love to a romantic relation and that of motivation based as such, when the romance and reasons become all archaic, the love dwindles and carries the marriage along I personally believe marriage is dependent on principles and decisions rather than just affection. Once you make up your mind on marrying an individual, you ought not to go back on your words. Most people lack this basic understanding and as such it turns out to look like there wasn't even an initial love.
This is just my perception to what brings and destroys the beautiful, ectactic experience to halt after some few days of togetherness among married couples. Join me in answering this general problem that has reduced our societies glory.
