Umar and Alia studied together in college. Both were intelligent, ambitious, and had big dreams. Umar wanted to become an engineer, while Alia dreamed of pursuing higher education and making her parents proud. At first, they were simply good friends who encouraged each other and helped one another with studies.
But as time passed, friendship slowly turned into emotional attachment. Their attention shifted from books to each other. Long conversations at night became routine. During classes, they would often be lost in thoughts about one another. Even during exam days, arguments, misunderstandings, and emotional discussions occupied their minds.
To them, this felt like love. They believed nothing else mattered and that they would take care of their future later.
The first warning came when the results were announced. Both of them scored much lower than before. Their parents were disappointed and worried. They asked what had happened, but neither Umar nor Alia could explain the real reason. The truth was simple: their priorities had changed.
It wasn't because they were bad people. They had simply made emotions more important than building a strong foundation for their future.
One of their teachers often used to say:
"Small mistakes made in youth can sometimes change the direction of an entire life."
At that time, those words sounded ordinary. Years later, they would understand their meaning.
Time moved on. Umar completed his studies, but because his academic foundation was weak and he lacked important skills, finding a good job became difficult. Meanwhile, Alia had already missed several educational opportunities. She had applied for scholarships and programs, but her grades were not strong enough.
Gradually, life became more complicated. Responsibilities increased. Circumstances changed. The paths they once promised to walk together slowly separated. Ironically, the relationship for which they had sacrificed so much did not survive either.
One evening, Alia opened her old diary. It was filled with thousands of messages, memories, and emotional conversations. As she turned the pages, tears filled her eyes. She realized that during the years when she should have been building her future, she had spent most of her energy chasing emotions.
At the same time, perhaps somewhere else, Umar was thinking about the past too. One sentence kept echoing in his mind:
"I wish we had loved our future as much as we loved each other."
This story is not only about Umar and Alia. It reflects the reality faced by many young people. Love itself is not wrong, but every stage of life has its priorities. When education, skills, and self-development are neglected, even relationships become difficult to sustain.
I remember a boy from my neighborhood who was extremely talented. He dreamed of becoming a software engineer. However, he became so emotionally involved in a relationship that he gradually lost focus. Years later, the relationship ended, and he often regretted the opportunities he had missed. He once told me, “Feelings come and go, but lost time never returns.”
Life is much like farming. A farmer first prepares the soil, plants the seeds, and works patiently before expecting a harvest. If he starts dreaming about the harvest without planting the seeds, he will eventually be left empty-handed.
Emotions are a beautiful part of life, but they should never come at the cost of dreams, education, and personal growth. Because sometimes, a few years of carelessness can become a lifetime of regret.
