One of the reasons most relationships fail is to claim love to a person without getting an appreciation of who such a person is. Have you ever wondered why people say, "You don't know if you really love a person till you know who that person is?" It's because love, good, bad and ugly, really embraces everything about a human. Until you have a taste or understanding of his / her bad and ugly sides, it will be difficult to say that you love someone.
Love decisions centered on an individual's positive side alone don't last long. The moment the other side of the individual begins to be exposed, it begins to fade.This is the reason you have to see clearly whom you want to be dedicated to, because you can not build your relationship on ignorance and expect it to last.