I see it with older guys I play golf with who can't hit the ball as long off the tee anymore and the disappointment that brings.

I think there is some visceral reaction - like waking up missing an inch in the downstairs department. Physical degradation is emasculating and whatever the equivalent is for a woman.

A lot of what I write and why I am honest in these posts is it is what I want to leave for my daughter. She is going to face challenges too and whilst different from mine, perhaps this brings her some relative perspective that helps her. It might also cover some of my bases in all the ways I have, am and will fail also :)