But i know i need to spend that time nurturing the growth via patience and self reflection.

A lot of people seem to try and rush tot he destination, not realizing that when they do, they can no longer reach it. It can't be forced, it can't be bought, it can't be taught - but it can be learned.

The "space" needed is important. I think the best thing I ever did for myself was to remove all attention paid to the news, remove all catalogs from the home, stop gaming - and start writing.