Choice is choosing one or two options out of many possibilities available, this simple word choice has a strong effect on our lives, we all make choice at different point in life,as human there is no way you can escape from making choice starting from the basic necessities of life ranging from what to eat,what to wear.
People have become great in life because of the choice they made and also people have become useless in life due to the poor choice they made,as you grow older,you being to make choice by yourself,no one will choose for you that is the main reason you have to open your eyes wide when making choice.
The choice you make everyday is either taking you forward or drawing you backward,you are who you become today based on the choice you made back then, many people looked back and regret ever making that poor choice,sometimes there is never another chance to amend the poor choice you have made,the main reason why you have to search your soul deeply,connect your head with your mind when making your choice
Never let anyone make a choice for you,because when the choice they have made for you start having negative impact in your life,those who made the choice for you will fold their hands and just watch.
Starting from the course you want to take at school,the business you want to start,the man or woman you want to get married to,the place you want to stay,there are critical issues that requires you making choice,and not just choice but a very strong one,so at this point you search your heart deeply, connect your mind to your head and don't let anyone push or lure you into something you don't want to do.
At times i had people complained, i don't want to do it but my mum forced me to do it or i don't want to go there my boyfriend forced me to do it, i shook my head and ask were your sense tied when they forced you to do it? yes that its just the truth you cannot be alive and then let someone make a choice for you,at times people are lucky that the choice people made for them ended up well,and other times it is just a no no, now am not saying people cannot make a choice, all am saying is don't let anyone force you to do what you don't want to do.
Choice is something you just have have to deal with as long as you are alive.
Reason why people make poor choices
People make poor choices based on the following reasons listed below
Because they are not independent,they rely on people to do everything for them even when it comes to making choice,and sometimes these people ended up making the wrong choice for them
Because they are impatient,some people a times are very impatient, and it lead to them making poor choice,they don't want to wait so they just go with any option available to them
Because they are afraid of taking risks and stick to the ones the have, at times its not favourable to them
They are not fully mature to take choice and they refuse to seek help.
Choosing a choice based on the fact that a friend made that same choice
Unsure of what one want in life
Too confidence sometimes can lead to one making wrong choice
Bad Relationship
Unsupportive Family
Considering only one option
HOW TO MAKE GOOD CHOICE
Be sure of what you want in life first before making any choice
Consider the various options available to you,don't just examine one option
Think deeply before making any choice
Seek advice from older ones when choosing your choice but don't let them choose for you
Don't choose because your friends are choosing
Pray to God to guide you
Probably you have made a wrong choice and you are facing the consequence, just keep calm and remember that nothing last for ever, you will surely overcome it,and be careful when next you are faced with the decision of making a choice