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We have always known that learning is a continuous process even after school because there are still so many things to learn outside of the school environment. I will say that going to school 🏫 enables us to know just the primary and secondary aspects of teachings which most are not related to how life works and the things we will meet while trying to deal with obstacles.
And they say the best experience is what happens to us because we are wholly involved into it but I also believed that learning from other peoples experience and there stories is another way to avoid being a victim in some certain circumstances and situations which most times helps us navigate and help ourselves out of a serious situations.
School never taught me how to stay away from bad companies especially as a teenager, because as a youth who was going into adolescents then after school years before the University years, lots of my friends from school felt that they are grown enough after haven gone yo secondary school to keep boyfriends, hang out with those that they hardly know especially during festivals like Christmas. But because I have senior sisters whom I usually over - hear during their discussion on how there are time for everything while growing up, boy girl relationship was not my priority then.
Another thing school never taught me is how life is a journey on its own where obstacles never ends, instead I got to know how I must push hard in life to be able to attain and achieve my dreams because even after University days I came out to face many challenges from reading business administration to wanting to be a Air Hostess because of my love 😍 for the job. And the issue was not getting the job because I have to enroll for a nine (9) months course to get the first class experience, but after this nine (9) months my mom was not happy with me going into the job. That was one experience I felt so sad 😭 about. But this is mother that I love ❤️ so much.
And how about the experiences we go through hoping and depending on someone we feel is a family for a very important assistance as they say that blood 🩸 is thicker than water 💦, but who eventually will end up disappointing us because of how they might feel if they help assist you, you might end up becoming more successful in life than them. These are stories we hear everyday and because humans sometimes do not care on what happens to another person even as a family. School never made us know this, but life keeps teaching us these things because learning is a continuous process even amongst ugly and sad experiences
Jealousy is another thing I never learnt from going to school, but human nature is full of envy, betrayal, jealousy and hatred. The worst of it all is that these things will come from those you never expect. I suffered so much jealousy and envy from place of work during my 8:00 - 5:00 . My closest friends then will be sounding it to me around the office on who to associate with and who not to, but because am a care free person I decided not to give care, living my life and trying to be everyone’s friend, at least in the office environment as co-workers. But that is reality to life and lifestyle which will bring experiences that will make us keep learning.
However, all these are why we are who we are today. The circumstances of life comes in various ways, teaching and shaping us. Even with all I got to experience, I never changed from whom I wanted to be. I came from a family that values love ❤️, and I have continued to believe in love because love conquers all. When we live in love, light will continue to locate us, nothing will ever bothers us which leads most times to good health through peace ☮️ of mind. Its also important we know that envy, jealousy, hatred are all hinderances to our moving forward in life.
This is my response to the #hivelearners featured content for week 176, edition 02, tagged “NOT IN SCHOOL”.
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