I talked to one of my friends about his restaurant affair that failed even before it started. My friend told me ‘she did not say no, but she did not give any positive signal either’.
My suggestion to my friend was straightforward: "If she doesn’t enjoy your company and is not ready for a relationship with you, move on." If she were interested in you, you’d be with her by now. "It sounds like she is not into you, so don’t waste your time".
My friend was still insisting that his heart always skipped a beat when he saw her entering alone and sitting at her regular table near him at lunchtime.
He liked her sense of dress and he also admitted that her dark black eyes and ponytail captivated him. In fact, he liked everything about her, but there was no positive signal from her.
But what baffled him was that it was different today, as she did not even look at him, not even a casual glance. I told my friend "That said it all, and she was not interested in you".
But he would not give up yet. He said, "Clever words indeed, but I think she will come back tomorrow and clarify things".
So when one guy says he isn’t ready for a relationship, he is a stupid or contemptible person, but when a girl says she is not interested in a relationship, she is strong-willed, independent, and perfectly fine.
Why the heck do girls have all the say in love matters? I am disappointed with my friend, but he should understand. By the way, he is still waiting for her.
Have you ever heard people saying we must push back against forces that would say, "women do not have a say or very little say in decisions or especially in an area of their ‘love life?’
What I feel is that their fight for rights and choices is not the same as it used to be in the last century. Come on, men, face reality!
