Clearly you missed the point of the conversation...I did NOT say you need to spend less time biking. I said you need to spend more time initiating connection with me. I referenced the bike because YOU WANT TO GO BIKING but you are not choosing to initiate connection with me. So clearly you do not want connection with me, is the message you are sending me. If that's not the message you want to send, then start sending a different message, and using the tools I've given you...

Your lack of ownership is what's causing issues here. Not you going biking.