One of the greatest concerns a man would have in his lifetime is how to satisfy his woman in bed.
Many times you would hear men sit and discuss their sex escapades, some would brag about how they almost killed their partner, you hear expressions like, "I am almost sure I shifted her womb", "She could barely walk when we finished" and they would all laugh to the jokes.
Truth is, that shouldn't be a joke, no one should discuss a romantic moment they had with someone they really care about... Really, no one would.
So, in reality, when you hear things like that, it comes from a place of an attempt to get back at a lady they have had a squabble with...
So, how do men really treat a woman they love in bed?
How should they...???
Here are a few tips from an expert in these matters.
First, you must try to change the name of the act in your mind, you must view it differently if you want to have it differently... So let's replace Sex with "Love Making" shall we?
Next thing, you must realize that the goal is not to make her weak and dead by the time the deed is done, the goal is to make her feel loved, to make her have glimpses of it and smile, the goal is to make her want more not run away...
One other very pertinent thing to note is that even a woman who wants you to ride her like you are high on things, would love it if you calm her down and make passionate love to her... While it may seem like that is what she really wants, she may be reacting to an abusive partner in her past who was always rash with her, or even a previous rape experience.
No woman, without a trigger, loves to be treated like an animal during love making. So even if she is asking for it, maybe you should let her have a bit of that but always let her taste real slow, sensitive and passionate love making... Teach her a new way, she would never forget that.
Here's a tip for ladies like that... You would notice there are parts of their bodies they don't want you touching during sex, that part, those parts most times are the most sensitive part of their bodies and they know that if you touch those parts you would trigger a sensitive part of them so instead they lead you on to do other things, they don't want to feel like it as love making, they want it to be just another passive sex time because in the past their abuser had made them see it as nothing else but that... You can break that jinx... I could teach you that but that is for the Master Class. Kiki.
Now, a few tips for the process itself.
When you hold a woman's body, speak to it, tell her how magnificent it is, in your words, if you do love her really, you would find that body enthralling, say how you see it, tell her. Don't just think it, say it to her. Say it before you make love to it, say it while you make love to it and say it after you make love to it. She would love to know how she really makes you feel, trust me.
Don't rush, it is not a marathon, watch her as you proceed, don't be too scientific but don't rush and loose yourself either, don't just try to satisfy you, satisfy her too, watch how she reacts as you travel through her body.
Yes, travel, take a tour, make a trip, bit by bit, touch every bit of her with love, touch those tits, eat them passionately, the sides, the tips, the nipples, if you do it right, you too will feel it, touch that ax, squeeze it gently, trust me she can feel it...
Walk through her body with your palms, gently, slowly, passionately, it shouldn't be difficult if you do care about her... If she insists you rush... Don't!
Make her go crazy, then slowly make passionate love to her.
Love Making is an Art and Artists take their time.
Welcome to my Tedtalk. The Rest will be done in the Master Class. Winks.
