Life is a continuous learning process. Now and then we often been to a situation that gives us some lesson. It is not related to academic and bookish learning but learning in real life too that help us to get better with each phase of life. Ever since we get a life, we get into a learning mode. From eating to talking to walking to schooling we human were born to learn. Continuous learning is a "mindset" that allows individuals to turn failures into lessons and to constantly improve their skills and understanding. There are certain situation and phases in life that an individual like to know more about it. And it is purely on their interest how they enhance their grasp on the subject. These days, I trying to get hand in learning marriage negotiation process.
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Trust the journey and keep moving forward
When I was out of my college, I figured out that knowing advanced computer is a way to build a good career, so I get a good hand on the keyboard and that helps me to get better job prospects. When I get into job, I tried to enhance different skills to adapt in the work environment. The learning new things never stops and it helps me always to get ahead of others. is not limited to formal education, but is a perpetual journey of self-improvement, professional development, and personal growth that continues from birth until death. Now as I entered a phase when our elders generation are on their last stage of life and our generation needs to take over their legacy of knowledge and wisdom. In process marriage negotiation and arrangement is an integral process.
Art of arranged marriage
Marriage is often viewed as an alliance between families rather than just individuals, with deep rooted cultural and historical significance. In this process, arranged marriage are seen as a way to preserve family values, minimize dating pressure, and secure financial stability. While love marriages are becoming more common in urban areas, the tradition of arranged marriage remains strong due to its deep integration into the social fabric. Arranged marriages is a structured tired process that is quite time consuming process. Getting a good alliance is never been easy and in arranged marriages were make sure to see if every parameters fits in or not. Before formalizing the union, families rigorously vet the prospective partner's background, including education, financial stability, family reputation, and caste/religious alignment. The process begin finding a prospective boys, meeting the parents and then sharing the details and then negotiation.
Arranged to be together
Few hours ago, I came from one such negotiation. It was the first meeting and I joined them to learn the real-time experience of initiating the alliance talk. So far our elders had done it quite handsomely and now they like to pass on the baton to upcoming generation. This is where I think learning this marriage negotiation helps me to get better in the coming years. Such kind of meeting let us to know many family roots and generation that were related to each other. Today while attending the meeting, I learned quite a new truck to start the talk and carrying on the process. Still the marriage is not yet formalized, and there are still fee mote meeting required to learn the entire process.
This is a new learning phase and hope it helps me getting better with each passing experience.
In good faith - Peace!!
