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Parenting is a good thing in which parents should always be bent on to do for their kids. Good parenting is optimum for children. It involves training them in the right moral in which they should always follow. Children when they are taught would not depart from that in which they were taught.
The Bible said in Proverbs 22:6 Train up a Child in the way he should grow and when he is old he will never depart from it so we should train a child to be a better child of God Almighty. When correction are made early they follow suite but when they might not be made they might fill that's the way in which it's suppose to be done, following the wrong way.
Parents can avoid being too over protective while still providing guidance. This over protective parenting is one parenting guide in which i would personally say I don't like. One thing is that people would always do whatever works for them. Some would stand by ut while others might not like me. To some your children might tends to misbehave while you are not overprotective but to others it doesn't work that way. Some children were not trained by over protective parents still they are not misbehaving.
However providing guidance in which they can follow can still be done without being on them always.
Observations is quite good as they said experience is the best teacher. Always being on a child might make the child begin to hide one thing or the other from the parents or guidance. This bad effect is that a child saying with the parents can easily share one experience or the other with them. The child knows fully well that they would listen and guide when properly, even when he or she travels or is now staying far can continue but in a situation where the child is already looking for freedom travelling or being out of sight would always be an opportunity to change into the person which he or she wants to. As he or she knows fully well that the parents are not with them.
A line should be drawn. There should be a difference between protection and over protection. Parents are always known to be protective in nature. Oh yes they know there sufferings and would always want the best for their children. In the process they should also be mindful when they are now being over protective and put a stop for the freedom of their children.
The training should be rooted in love and not control. One thing is that when we do things out of love there is always a significant in it. Helicopter training should really based on great Love for children.
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When also parents are training their children they should make them understand that they are making them to be independent also not trying to neglect their duties towards them.
There indeed should be a goodstriking a BALANCE in parents so by God's Grace one would not slake.
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