According to general perception failure is a state or condition of not being able to achieve or attain a desirable and intended outcome or result,Failure can be in various form including ' REJECTION, POVERTY, LACK, FEAR, FRUSTRATION DEPRESSION' e.t.c Failure can be seen as a general state of dissatisfaction and unhappiness at self.
The truth is everyone has failed at one point in life but the difference between those that are seen as failure and winner's is there perception and response to failure, Because the only way to be a failure is to fail and not look beyond that failure. Successful people see failure as an event, Knowing that it's an inevitable part of life and are always ready to learn from it for there next undertaken and adventure.
Like John Maxwell said, All road to achievement lead through the land of failure it stood firmly between every human being and there dream.So to achieve your dream you have to embrace problem and make failure a part of your life because if you are not failing then you are not growing.