There are different types of people in the society and sometimes the disparity is even unfair. There are people who are rich and Powerful and there are those who are weak and poor, some people are unhealthy and vulnerable suffering from conditions they know nothing about or contributed to what caused it.
There are those who are healthy, good genetics, good looks, inheritance, generational wealth and a very good family who loves them. At the end of the day, we have those who will always need and those who will always need to give.
Being a needy person is hard, you are the mercy of those who are supposed to help you. If they are in a bad mood, or they woke up late from the wrong side of the bed, or they are not feeling as magnanimous, then this affects their ability to help you.
Your free will is taking away, you cannot have your own voice or live for yourself, you will be discriminated against, and even people begin to mistake your care and attention for opportunism. It's a shame, it is a very difficult mental and physical place to be in, and unfortunately so many people cannot control it.
I have been in a position where I need dead to beg to go by in life, pay bills or feed and it was the most shameful phase of my life.
You will have to exchange what you have for the things you need, and the one you can no longer offer those things you have (that is if you have anything to offer in the first place) then you're considered surplus to requirement.
In life, a time will come when you will no longer feel the need to Hustle.
Sometimes it might be because you have tried so much in life and all you have gotten was countless disappointment, sometimes you are just genuinely tired and everything in life feels like vanity, try as much as possible not to give in to that feeling.
I understand that it takes a lot to get back to your feet after you have fallen, people are meant to fall or fail, inasmuch as it lives a lot of bitter taste, not trying to get back up is even worse.
The biggest reason to continue hustling is never to be at the "receiving end" more than the "giving end". Everybody receives in life, even the wealthiest people actually receive all the time, but the truth is that a lot of times the gift as much as they get, and this creates a balance that keeps them relevant and valuable.
In essence, being able to give more, means that you need to have. No one can actually give what they do not have. It is when people have some certain level of "enough" (maybe an average level to an extent) then one can begin to give.
A taking person is never respected or valued. This is probably one of the reasons why a lot of first world countries will always consider"migrators" to be vulnerable and low level.
A migratory truly needs help, either they are running away from their country because it is a war zone, or they need serious help to better their life financially, whatever the reason why they are living, they will always be laughed at or mocked for being a free loader in a different country.
While the individual might not be a lazy person and intrinsically offers value to the new country they are going to, they are still going to continue experiencing that stigma of coming from a place of low value.
The place that they are coming from is something they cannot control. Infact if their government did its best, the person might not need to try to run away from their country, but unfortunately their country was corrupt and elected criminals as rulers.
A giver can get cocky and it takes a high level of humility and empathy not to get to that level. When people continuously give, it might get to a point where they become tired, and this tiredness or frustration of being the only giver makes them begin to lose their sense of empathy, they become arrogant and then there is no going back from there.
Let your hustle be fueled by a hunger, the hunger for the hatred of neediness. Even good people will get cocky when they're the ones always giving,it'll take a lot of discipline for people to remain grounded.
Hustling is hard, true.
In life it's probably the hardest thing if you don't have enough means, enablement or a favourable environment then you might fail for a long time, but irrespective of the failures, you need a purpose that's even higher than your fear for failure.
